It’s mind boggling that you think someone can create a space on a public forum where anyone can vent about anything and nobody else will ever leave a comment that isn’t “reading the room.” What?

You want it to be open and public (you’ve rejected or ignored advice to create a discord or closed sub) but it should also have some magical protection around it that prevents any of the billions of other people on the planet from leaving comments that aren’t fully and completely supportive 100% of the time. What am I missing? And you say all this like every fucking subreddit on this site isn’t already filled with these guys venting about how hard dating is exclusively for men.