There is no "age" when you should lose your virginity. And it's not "ridiculous" to be a virgin past the age of 18. I was 19. I just asked my roommate - he was 22. My other roommate was 32.

Threatening to break up with your girlfriend because she isn't ready to have sex with you makes you an immature, selfish asshole.

And know this - selfish, aggressive, manipulative men are terrible lovers. Why wouldn't you want her first time to be when she's ready and feels comfortable?

She deserves someone who is patient, loving and capable of showing kindness & empathy. She deserves someone who is respectful and a gentlemen.

If you're that desperate, break up with her.