How does one stop overthinking so much in their relationship?

so talk to him and not me

my girl said she doesnt want kids and wants to leave the country and wants to do art school and on and on

i didnt ask anyone else for shit but her

i called her and we talked for two hours on the phone while i walked around the block

talking with him is the only way to get concrete information

i dont know a single thing about you, or him, except that you prefer to not smoke, and want to marry him

i do know that i have never fought with or accused or felt insecure about my girlfriend

that's entirely because i talk to her all the time

i havent seen her in 10 months due to COVID, and yet we stick to our life and plan

make a plan with him, and if you guys cant settle on a plan, there's your answer

just know that the promise ring thing may or may not mean shit to a teenage boy, or just a teenager in general

i still get asked about if i'm still with that girl from all my friends, since all of them have broken up with their girlfriends

you and him are the only ones that can keep that from happening

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