As your boyfriend, you would also be okay with him looking at other females' nipples that are being "on display" since they are just a 'normal' thing and shouldn't be sexualized?

As a guy in a happy relationship, nipples are an immediate attention-getter. I love my gorgeous girlfriend and have no reason to go after any other female, but I think being raised to believe that nipples is a more sexual thing since movies that showed them when growing up were immediately R rated, or games with them immediately became M rated ingrained in my head that nipples are sexual, and therefore an additional attractive feature of the female body.

Also, as a straight guy, dudes that have their nipples showing is also an attention-getter, because it's just unexpected, I think. Idk, really.

I understand nipples are only for nurturing/nourishing, but I've been programmed to think also in other terms, and "deprogramming" myself from that is like trying to deprogram myself from being straight.