How to handle a girl who keeps flaking but shows signs of interest ?

I had a similar thing happen to me a few years back. I put up with the run around because I was just broken up with by my girlfriend of 5 years so I was happy for anyone to be paying attention to me.

I hung out with the girl like once and she would text and flirt alllll the time. She even expressed genuine worry at the thought of me hanging with a different girl.

In spite of that, she constantly avoided any attempts at making real dates or situations that could allow for more intimacy. I eventually just let it go because it was just exhausting and she was sort of an empty head I was just tolerating because I was rebounding hard.

Turns out the whole time she was messaging me and flirting and all that, she was living with her boyfriend who happened to be visiting a different Province at the time.

Fast forward like 3 months later, I get a message from her boyfriend informing me of such and she’s messaging me separately trying to control the narrative of the whole thing.

I just blocked them both and acted like it never happened.

So yah, be careful with that girl. Maybe just bounce

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