Idk if I'm allowed to do this this this is RPwomen but as a man, still fairly new to TRP, I was under the impression that men of value who are capable and attractive enough will simple pass you by if you hold out for a commitment because they have other women that require less? Ya you might be such a high quality girl that you'd put Helen of Troy to shame but a quality guy isn't going to stick around for 10+ dates and a committed relationship to figure that out. I think you're not putting enough importance in a man's desire for sex. There is no way in hell I would ever commit to anything with a girl before sex, for all i know she could be a starfish.
However, this would work perfect for a beta guy, he'll bend over backwards for pussy, sacrificing his time and money to court you in a desperate attempt to buy your time and pussy. Which in doing so is in itself not attractive for most women. As far as I'm aware, TRP end game is to find a girl that is so into you that she will do anything for you, she wants to fuck you, so much so that she can't control herself and girls want that same thing also, an uncontrollable desire for your partner. Traditional courting and jumping through hoops to lock down a girl/guy does not result in that type of dynamic in a relationship.
But I'm not going to just criticizes, for what it's worth all add what i personally look for if i was to ever LTR a girl. Right now i only have one plate that would be potential LTR material. Here are the things she does that most other girls don't;
She lusts for me, when she's with me I am the only thing she focuses on and she can't keep her hands off me. When she's not with me, she lets me know this in other... ways... Subsequently, her desire for me, makes me desire her more and creates kind of positive feedback loop. Having a woman desire you as a man is such a primal and intimate thing for a guy that a lot of girls don't even realize, this is why it's at the top of my list.
She's independent, she has her on goals and desires in life and she's forward with them. She knows what she wants in life even
She's open. I don't filter myself with her and neither does she. I know it's valuable to have a classy and well mannered(feminine) girl, which she is. She doesn't cuss like a sailor or anything but she and I aren't afraid to say whatever we are thinking.
Bomb ass sex. This openness was immediate and subsequently made sex amazing, we easily talked about what we want in the bedroom and it turns out we have very similar tastes. She loves being dominated and her being submissive. Again, part of that primal man thing of a woman lusting for you. She is willing to do almost anything I want to her and she loves it.
Very traditionally feminine. Dresses well and always looks good, cooks for me(I also cook for her), cleans my place, etc.
Now here are some things she doesn't do;
And just for a bit more context, We met on tinder, our first date was going out to the bars with some friends and we fucked on the first date.
So is this a guide for pickup up a beta too be your provider or a guide to get an alpha to commit to you? Because it definitely doesn't seem like a How To for securing an alpha. If you don't want to be more than a plate, you need to be the best plate, not skip the whole process out of fear of being stagnated. Unless of course you want a provider male and that's it, then disregard this post.