How to pick up women being a boring guy and growing old?

Easy guy~ don’t be boring and age doesn’t mean anything , you don’t believe me but it doesn’t. Get into something you like doing and you’ll meet people naturally doing something you both like. For example if you like playing tennis, go to the tennis courts and meet people. Stay out of your head, don’t listen to any voices in your head rationalizing why you shouldn’t make things happen and just make it happen. Also helps if you don’t really care about what people think about you and that’s the hardest part because you/your ego has to be ok getting shot down and continue approaching women/or men for that matter as it’s just a numbers game. I just got shot down by this beautiful girl a week ago, no worries pleasure to meet you and move along. I figure I was selling pizza and she, at the time, was looking for Chinese. It’s natural for guys to approach women no matter what anyone says it’s natural and it’s your job so be like Nike and just do it! You got this!

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