I keep wondering .. Guys? ... What keeps you going these days? .. If I didn't have the desire to get laid or a need for validation occasionally I'd just stop dating.

Thanks ... I expected guys recognize this, but not so much from women.

It is an issue .. I mean you can be totally earnest and all that .. But as months with zero interest go by that is hard to keep up.

In my view the biggest challenge as a guy is to stay sane and let time go. I've been married and in several relationships .. No worries.

But dating interest in your late 40s is a lot lower than in your late 20/30s ... No big deal as such necessarily, but at times you get in a mood.

Another 1 month relationship ended a last week. This time one of the boring ones, where we'd just eat, fuck and watch TV, but other than that she couldn't get her pulse up about anything.

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