What gets me is all the women I know who are perfectly lovely but have FWBs who are narcissistic losers who happen to be physically attractive, who they aren't interested in actually dating because, you know, they're narcissistic losers. But how is a guy supposed to feel that the woman he's interested in is sleeping with some other guy with no strings attached just based on his looks, but he's supposed to win her over with his personality, because apparently she'd rather sleep with a hot asshole than a decent average guy? He's not good enough for her unless he provides something extra. So basically she'd rather be sleeping with another guy but would settle if she gets something else in return. I guess that's the problem I have with FWBs. If some other guy is allowed to have sex with a woman with no strings attached, while I'm only allowed within the context of a relationship, how am I not supposed to feel inferior, even if I'm not looking for an NSA relationship?