I'm sure you don't want to be involved with "crazy borderline chicks" either. I'm sure it's #notallmen, but in internet spaces frequented by men the most common advice for discovering one is dating a traumatized / self-harming woman is "dump her, not worth it", or even "use and discard" (a la TRP)
My brother was very tall and his beauty is discussed in my hometown to this day. When I go back and people discover I'm my brother's sister, they often go, "oh! The young man with the face of an angel." He was asked to play Jesus in a passion play (he turned it down because he was an edgelord)
He committed suicide. His last girlfriend stopped menstruating at one point because he was so stressful. She told me he didn't need to drive her up the wall at all - she wanted to have his babies.
FWIW.