I wish I could hug you because this is exactly what I need to read. Honestly the one thing thats stopping me from just getting up and leaving right now is finances im literally starting work right on time before going broke..Oh because I pay half the rent and he doesn’t help me clean or cook either ( I stopped cooking 3 weeks ago because I became fed up with him making dirty dishes and not cleaning them). Trust me I am so over the manipulation and threats I totally resent him and im trying to not feel this way because I would rather love on people in general but this is my last straw I promise if he doesnt agree i’m moving on. I would rather be single and live on my own.