The “it doesn’t feel as good” mindset is so fucking weird to me. I’m a guy who generally doesn’t enjoy how condoms feel, and I struggle to cum while wearing a condom, but I literally don’t give a single shit. I want to be safe too! I want to prevent an unplanned pregnancy too! I absolutely refuse to have sex without a condom unless I’m in a long term monogamous relationship and she’s on birth control.

And anyway, who cares if I don’t come from PiV sex? There are other ways to reach the same goal, and even if it actually isn’t as enjoyable I can’t imagine taking that level of personal risk for an orgasm, let alone the risk you’re placing on your partner.