You’re right, I read that off of the other person who replied to you. Regardless, you are upset that a child is acting not like the norm - and I find your equating her to the “hyper grown up” like the other girls as the norm.. kind of disturbing? (Not necessarily you/what you said) just the idea of that on the whole is something to unpack I think. I’m just saying that I am a successful grown ass person who happens to like pink and bows and glitter and my voice is probably too high pitched and excited all the time but that doesn’t make me any less mature or successful or likeable. Stop expecting fucking teenagers to live up to norms.