Just found proof that my wife is cheating

Fuck, I’m so sorry mate…

You present as calm and composed but must be really overwhelmed with emotions right now. You’re totally entitled to that but from lived experience my advice (and many other men) is to:

1: STFU - CONFIDE ONLY TO PROFESSIONALS FOR THE MOMENT

2: STFU - DON’T LET ON YOU KNOW ANYTHING TO HER OR ANYBODY ELSE UNTIL ALL YOUR DUCKS ARE IN A ROW

3: STFU - DO NOT SAY OR DO ANYTHING SHE COULD USE TO STITCH YOU UP AS ABUSIVE TO CREATE A VICTIM NARRATIVE TO COVER HER TRACKS

FFS, google DARVO right now…

Infidelity is fucking devastating, you’ll move on in your own time but RIGHT NOW focus on not being framed as an abuser for reacting emotionally. Don’t be that sucker, jsearle88!!

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