The first time i left my first child was with my mother for a few hours i was nervous how she would go. But the first time i left her with my partners mother i was also nervous because i dident know how she would go again. She went great needless to say for both of them. However when i sent her to child care when she was 1 or 2 for the first time ever that was a utter disaster and my mommy instincts kicked in and i new something was very wrong. Unfortunately you can get some bad child cares. I found out she was injured by another child who hit her over the head with a metal saucepan just because he wanted a toy she had'. "I never knew they were giving them metal saucepans to play with in my opinion thats just clearly dangerous". Its really hard leaving your children with others they are your babies though i could tell you the full story of the child care indecent i really dont want to frighten you anymore. Only leave your babies with some one you trust. If you get any negative vibes from anyone or the place in general be very cautious of them and dont leave your children there. Trust your mummy instincts they work wonders, thats how i knew my child was hurt. Know that your baby will be safe and back in your arms as soon as you can return to her. If you do not feel comfortable working do what you think is right and try and look at other options if possible. If there is none you may have to bite the bullet sadly.

The best you can do when you leave her is try not to think about it. I understand how hard it is i do. Also keep a eye on your daughter to make sure there treating her well. It would be a good idea if shes not eating or sleeping properly to take her to see your doctor if your worried as there could be a number of reasons why she is not sleeping or eating. Best of luck with everything :).