Yes it's way past a probl3m.
It's so bad that you actually can't call it out, especially as a straight man, or your just 'proving' you're a monster and don't understand or Carr about women.
Seriously, I get it. Life has hard elements. Many victims are women.
The reality is, many victims are also men. We just don't have a voice. And are told we are pieces of shit every day. And if we ask not to be called a piece of shit, then we doubly deserve to be called a piece of shit.
Mens suicide statistics are 3x what women's are. Women's and society's treatment of men has a significant role in this.
I did the maths. You're more than 60x more likely to die from suicide as a man, than to die as a woman at the hands of a male partner.
Something had gone horribly, horribly wrong in the equality movement.