I massively messed up I think, and I need someone experienced (both males and females) to help me here as I’m probably not thinking straight.

You got issues. Go see a professional about them.

I let go on text him and essentially tell him that I thought he was different and I guess he was not after all, and that now that he got what he wanted he has decided to lower his attention to me and I just hate him.

A whole day/two days after he banged you and you already imploded that? You both agree sexual attraction is #1 priority and everything else comes later, then you give it a whole day for the later part...yeah, I wouldnt text you back in the slightest and would be blocking your number, and getting and std test. You come off as very, very needy and a bit crazy. good luck, get some help on your internal issues before you take them out on the next guy

Here is some advice, put a premium on dating good people not just how sexually attracted to someone you are. Priorities, ya know?

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