3. Me (26F) and my boyfriend (32M) of 3 years disagree on "boy's trips". I'm starti...

Me (26F) and my boyfriend (32M) of 3 years disagree on "boy's trips". I'm starting to think I might be too controlling.

I don't want to be controlling, but I'm starting to feel like maybe I'm being too demanding.

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Every man needs time with other men. You don't have to be involved in everything he does. You are making his trip with other men about you, having your opinions and say about it. It has nothing to do with you. Love is letting your loved one have the freedom to express themselves in their life. Let him express himself naturally. Plan your own trip with him if you need. Letting him be is more attractive and will garner so much love from him towards you if you are laid back and confident. The hold you are extending on him, the pressure and your opinions is uptight and stressful. Relax and let him be. Just make good love to him. Put it all there.

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