Thanks, I don't quite know what got into me with that first response- Caps and all, like i said before, internet anonymity can make people behave bizarre. Plus i do have some bent up anger towards my brother in law and brother for how they treat their wives.

I do respect the fact that your honest with her, and sometimes honesty hurts. Its true, all men are curious about sleeping with other women, I'm no idiot and I know my husband desires other women- we talk about it often and honesty is key. My husband explain it that men like variety, so if your wife is hot and skinny you might want a thick girl...or visa versa. Men cannot deny their biological need for variety too "spread their seed" with a variety of women, and I feel thats where this desire comes from, I do however, feel that men can rise above this. Men can rise above their desires and understand that they are just that, desires coming from their lower "primal" brain. I doubt your frontal lobe wants to be with another women, but your primal instils have thought it so much from "watering the plant" your starting to think about it logically and as if it may happen. I think this started when your girl entertained the idea, and I'm sure you thought abut it more--watered the plant. Technically she is reneging on her end but she does have the right. Men can separate love and sex, women can't....so when i did say ultimate disrespect, i mean it most likely did hurt her feelings, and its hard for her to see how you can separate love and sex. Women, don't make that separation as easily especially when they're paired with an "alpha" male who gives them good sex, provides etc...in that case a women will never stray IMO.

I may suggest, possibly getting her to buy some wigs and costumes, i mean it could satisfy the need for variety. I know you said you want to experience other body types, would she ever consider going to a strip club together with you? I mean theres ways about this that don't include betrayal. there are ways to be 100% monogamous and satisfied! I'm no saying suppress yourself completely, but, defiantly dont water the wrong plant! Water your girls plant lol.