he also has regular photos of exes around. he has one from ten years ago and it is in a frame.

for someone that claims to love me, there were some things that he was doing in the relationship that made it seem transactional. ex: wanted to get matching t-shirts. we couldn't decide which ones. the idea was for me to pick a set and then he would pick a set and we'd buy the respective sets. i bought ours then he couldn't decide what he wanted to buy. then he had like four different ones picked out. told me to get one of them, then he'd buy the other two. i told him i had already bought some shirts and wasn't planning on spending the money right now. then he was like, yeah, you're right. we do already have the others. he wasn't going to buy any shirts either.

he planned a weekend trip and wanted to stay at a BNB. he was having trouble on his work computer booking the BNB. asked me to book it and he'd pay me back. never payed me back until we received a call from the BNB asking if we were canceling. (they had forgotten to make note we were going to be checking in late.) he gets worked up about that and was like fuck them. i'll pay you for the late cancel fee if they do that. then i just awkwardly told him that he was supposed to be paying for the BNB and hadn't payed me for it....

he's told a couple of stories a few different ways. one about a fight him and his dad had at a family event. first time he told it out with his friends it was last year. he told it to me again in private and it was several years ago.

so yeah, there are some questionable other things going on there.