I didn't say he said women are getting more credit....

No, you are just misunderstanding me. I don't know how to explain it what i mean. As I am saying, english is not my first language. I don't get how you misunderstood me. I'm sorry for I guess?

I am most certainly not jumped on any victim card. He said "Just how much work the average guy does & how much is expected of them" in answer to the question. And where I live that is not something women don't notice. First women do notice it and recognise it. Second, women generally tend to work as much as men in hours. True that most dangerous jobs are taken up by men, but a lot of it is because women often do not meet the physical requirements for the jobs or they tend to work less to look after kids... It is a remnant from decades ago when women where supposed to have babies and stay at home.

Second... what is expected of men that women do not notice? I really want to know what he is referring too.

Where do you live? Maybe it is regional or cultural?