This is sort of an issue Ive been having for awhile. Im 23(M) and have progressivly come to the conclusion that Im bisexual. Looking back on my life it makes sense even though growing up I originally thought I was straight. I realize now that thought process was because of my religous upbringing combined with spending my whole life around homophobic people, in particular, my father. I have a hard time dealing with it because I feel like my interests change by the day or by the week. Im not sure how to explain it. One moment Im going crazy over a girl and the next moment I see Chris Pratt in Jurrasic world and I have to stop myself from audibly exclaiming in front of my friends how I would ravish him. Because its not consistent Im constantly dealing with the mental anxiety of feeling like I have to "pick a side" because I was told growing up that bisexuality didnt exist, or that no, Im really not bi because Im thinking about only women lately....but wait, hes cute.... I deal with this daily and Its killing me because I dont even feel like I could bring it up with anyone. I can barely understand it myself. How am I supposed to explain to someone that one moment I can think a girl is attractive and the next I think a particular guy is. If I had to place myself anywhere on the kinsey scale, I would say Im a 2, but its subject to change at any moment. Im not even into guys that sexually, only certain ones, but damn could I fall in love with one. How does that even work? If youre afraid or anxious of not being "bi enough," just take a step back and realize that you should just be who you are. Who cares if your bi or anything else. If you want to date a man, go for it! If not, then dont. I know exactly what your going through and this has helped me a lot. Its okay to be bi and not think about it all the time. Take a break and just go where life takes you. I dont feel like I would fit in very well at my college lgbt group but on the same note I dont feel like I fit in completely with my straight friends so screw it. Takes to much effort to care after awhile. Just go with what feels comfortable to you.