My (28m) uncle (56m) is upset with my reaction to my abusive mother dying. He doesn't know about the abuse and I don't want to tell him

Interesting to hear since my aunt was the my biggest critic and gossip monger. She talked shit about me to everyone. I still haven't forgiven her....and she still insults me with patronizing comments about how I pulled myself out of the gutter to make a good life.

Yeah, with no fucking help from any of you, while your children didn't work so that they could "focus" on school and failed courses in university that you just paid for them to re-do while I worked 2 jobs and went to school part time for 8 years to pay for my degree. I couldn't afford to fail any of my courses.

But, no matter how you turn it, they are considered "better" than me.

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