This is where i would stand at any other point, the main issues holding me back are the mental health issues and, i didnt mention i n the main post, but she is also having a severely rough time, she has recently lost her dad and has found out she might be being made homeless this week, and i'm pissed at her ex just as much because, as far as i'm aware, he knows this and i feel he's used it as an opportunity.

I also am super worried i am justifying everything because, i am in love with her, and blinded by it.

Thank you for speaking bluntly though, i appreciate it, and i am going to take 20 minutes to calm down then tell her i'm not waiting around when it should be at least easy enough to tell him no, even if she is worried about our relationship.