3. My [30] wife [27] is too controlling, and locked me out of the bedroom because I...

My [30] wife [27] is too controlling, and locked me out of the bedroom because I took our son to see my parents.

I don't care how many terrible things you've done in the past. You don't deserve to be abused.

Thank you for saying this, that is what gets me about this situation. Is I am not trying to run from what I did. I admit I hurt her, and now she almost takes pleasure in telling me she has dates scheduled and making me beg her to stay in and tell her how sorry I am. She never ends up going out and I really don't think these dates are ever scheduled...who knows. If she is really hurt by what I did, then I will gladly have an adult conversation about it....but I dont want to play mind games about it. Also I don't know how much this stuff REALLY matters to her because the other night after arguing and her telling me my family was scumbags because of how my mom treats my step kids, she was texting me while I was downstairs doing dishes begging me to come to bed with all this dirty talk. I'm just like.....how TF can you be in the mood if you really feel the way you said you did??? So I have like the worst experience of my life trying to please her while all I can think about is her telling me my family is pieces of shit.

Anyways, I'm starting to realize more and more this relationship is unsalvageable. I just really don't how to begin to get out. You've given me good advice though

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