3. My [31M] new girlfriend [30F] previously identified as a lesbian and I can't sto...

My [31M] new girlfriend [30F] previously identified as a lesbian and I can't stop stressing out about ruining everything because I'm a man

She really has feelings for you and wants you. Don't worry about making sex perfect. Just take it slow. Show her how you feel. At this point you need to lighten up on seriousness and letting on you are worried. Just go with it and let it happen. Don't talk yourself out of it. Be cool.

Some good oral is always nice for almost any girl. It's safe to assume that she is into that, given her history. It's a must to help her get ready for penetration, if that does happen.

Oral is a great hack in sex with anyone anyway. Give them a few good ones first, and most girls won't care too much how good the rest is. Then the pressure to perform is greatly relieved. If you want some tips on an easy method to make just about anyone cum with your tongue, feel free to pm me.

Remember one thing. Any sex act done with respect and love by someone you care about is always good sex. Even sex that's pretty bad with someone you care about is better than decent sex with an asshole. Relax and take your time, you'll do just fine.

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