My bf (27M) is upset that I (23F) go out a lot, when he doesn't make the effort to join me... How should I fix this?

So I had tried to make a common interest with him in the beginning. He didn’t seem interested at all (he’d flat out tell me so, which is okay too). I’d try to get interest in his hobbies, but games he play are difficult… I guess I’ll try to continue to find something we’re both interested in, but it’s difficult when he doesn’t seem to put any effort at all.

Idk he seems to lack interest in me when I’m in his company… once I hang with my friends or make plans with other people he has an issue about it. I always extend the invite, but he doesn’t want to join and gets mad.

I really think we lack compatibility, I’ll def take into consideration of the advice here so I can work things out with him. Other than him getting mad here and there he’s good to me.

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