You have given me a lot to think about, and I thank you so much for the genuine reply. Overall, our relationship has been generally seamless, and I do truly believe he cares. I just honesty think he's been trying to be independent for so long that he's forgotten what it's like to have another human in his life. Maybe it's because he wants it that way, maybe it's because I'm so agreeable that this is sadly one of the first times I've spoken my mind about it. He was the shining example of someone who was willing to put every ounce of effort until it got too real for him. I think he realizes that relationships take work and take leaving your comfort zone while at the same time being comfortable. It's easy to take care of what you want, it's hard to integrate someone else in that. I had expressed that to him and I've given him time to decide whether or not he wants that specifically with me. I refuse to waste my time with someone who doesn't want to put forth the same effort.

I will be repeating your words in my head once I assess his next steps. We haven't spoken today and I'm thankful for it, ironically.

You are a wonderful human for taking the time to read this and offer advice.