My opinion? Leave the man be. He’s trying to be a doctor and wants to smoke some weed during his downtime. Some people like to vibe and game or listen to music when smoking, and this is normal.

Tell him to get a vaporizer if you’re really having such a physical reaction. Vaporizer will also reduce smell on your clothes. He could absolutely be more considerate about causing you physical distress, but at the same time, I could understand how someone might see this as an exaggeration.

Your kid isn’t going to develop a fancy for marijuana just because his dad does it. You wouldn’t have to lie to the child either. Plenty of mothers in medical states have found ways to explain their “medicine” to children in an easy to understand way.

My suggestion to you is: 1) Research dry herb or concentrate vaporizers depending on his preference. I recommend the Arizer EQ

2) Check out some parenting subreddits, or even r/trees, and see how parents are tackling the issue of marijuana with their kids.