Wow, if I didn’t know any better, I would think I wrote this post! Holy crap almost the same situation — I pay for everything and we’ve only been dating for 6 months. Also, I used to give him gas money since he drives up to see me, but I stopped since every time he’s with me, I’m always paying.

The guy I’m dating is not rich and is just starting his new career. I completely understand that. But seriously though, if you want to date and be in a relationship, you have to know that you’ll have to spend money or at least put some effort.

It’s absolutely unattractive and I’m actually going to end it soon. I just can’t afford to pay for this entire relationship anymore.