what i think is that he might try to improve himself cuz when u go on the self improvement this is a path that many men will take. imo tate is not always talkin bs but he does it here and there. it is important to differentiate between it. u can learn from every persons perspective but need to connect to ur own values. i think u should talk to him and tell him that u r concerned. leaving him bc of that is a typical reddit advice and based on ur username and picture i can tell that u also have been “brainwashed” by the modern media. both of u look like teenagers to me when i look at your post. know your values. know who u r. not knowing your values is also fine. but yeah maybe try the thing that is inside works inside your skull. it’s called thinking.