It’s basic/obvious things they should already know that’s the problem. -feed the kid until you’re sure he eats enough, not give up after trying 1-2 spoons because child is full even though they never actually ate -don’t have loud stuff because that’s obviously bad for kid -don’t let them use a device 24/7 -don’t let them watch bad things

The issue is we’re not asking her to babysit, like I stated in the post we hardly ever go anywhere that requires us to leave our child... like in the past 3 months I’ve gone out just me and my husband maybe 2-3 times. Otherwise we take our son everywhere. If 1 of us can stay we do otherwise we do everything together.

She wants to be with my child and spend time with him so we are not asking her to babysit. I have a problem with her wanting to be with him but never actually is spending time with him.