Thank you for your thoughtful answer. The first issue is pretty clear to me, i know that I should not pressure her into being "my solution". About the second issue: We already talked about it. She admitted to me that she has difficulties opening up to other people, and that being in a relationship was a big task for her. She said that she still needs periods of time where she wants to be completely alone, and that she is working on it getting better. I try to give her all the space she needs, but as you said, I am thinking about starting a family in the next few years, and she wants to do the same. But I am struggling to understand how that is going to work when she still has difficulties living with other people. I think that she is the one, and I am pretty sure that she feels about me the same way. But she still has to get over her Lone Wolf attitude.