You might want to reconsider if she's rigth for you in that case. My boyfriend is very overweight, yet I see him as the most beautiful and attractive person in the entire world - all because of how much I love him.

It might be true that you consider her a wonderful person you have a special connection with - but it seems like it would work better if you were considering each other close friends as opposed to a romantic couple.

I don't know, I couldn't possibly see myself ever be not attracted to my boyfriend no matter how much or little he weighs. He is my reason to be happy, the one thing that keeps me going. Every time I see him, he reminds me of what I have to live for. Overweight or not, he is the most beautiful person in the world to me.