you know video games is just a recreational hobbie like any other right? As long as it's done in moderation its cool. But that goes for anything.

Yes, of course, but it was just an example. I have already stated that women who spend hours on end on Facebook are just as bad, and also need to prioritise and get their shit together.

Or maybe you were using it as an analogy for "loser behaviour" which ok but outdated since most people play video games. What I'm really wanna determine if it's playing video games you're against or wasting your life on an unsociable hobbie they are not the same thing.

I don't think its loser behaviour, I think it's bad prioritisation of time when you're in a relationship and investment of time is important. When taking into consideration sleep, work, chores, food, tasks, etc. then you have very little time left to enjoy with whoever you're in a relationship with. Do you think investing that time in video games is a good thing? On average, people have around 4-6 hours left per day after taking into consideration the above.