New and Confused HL/LL

True. we have discussed the sex compatability thing and i have expressed many times to him over the years about how i am a very sexual person etc and i am struggling with the sexual quality when we do have it because i dont feel he is actively there or involved mentally. he just says that sex isnt everything and our relationship is strong why would i want to end things over just sex. Which isnt wrong, our relationship and personality compatability etc is strong. I dont know if he understands how he should be feeling, if that makes sense? i have had previous relationships before, so i know how you should feel towards the person you are in a relationship with, but as he hasnt i question if he doesnt realise how big a deal the sex/chemistry thing is, and doesnt realise that maybe he isnt feeling how he should be? i dont know how to explain..

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