OMG that is my one parent.
They are just projecting what they have come to conclude after their experience.
You should know that these all are the results of their failed attempts to have a life
It is not marks but it is the journey. If you are on to what you love the marks come with it. They are not enjoying life or their life choices obviously. It really comes down to that
Since you are young i think you should know that you need to listen to your guts first and do not argue with the people that can not understand you. Just nod until you are off with them.
They are seeing what they love, want to see. Friends are awesome companions. You really should love to chat with people. Depending on them would be nice to but eventually it gets down to having a good time really. That is what companions are for. Do not view them as something like "human capital" love all but hang out with people you can handle.
Girlfriends ... can be life to you .
these all depend on how you perceive life
here is a good channel