3. People who were seen as average or unattractive in high school. What was your ex...

People who were seen as average or unattractive in high school. What was your experience like and what’s it like now?

I was always a little chubby teen (not the lovely curve body alot of girls had!) I also had horrible acne an frizzy Tangled red hair school and I was alao big anime and manga lover witch put people off for some reason? (I still love anime.) I never really care what I looked like in school, but I always wanted a boyfriend. It never happened.... Last year I told myself I need to love myself and pull myself together at that time I was around 210 lbs at 5' 7" and looked and felt horrible. So lost some weight and now I'm 140, and take better care of my appearance. With a small confidence boost not much, I started to cosplaying a big dream I had when I was younger but never felt like I was pretty, I don't realize how different I looked until I was shown a comparison picture a few months ago. I cried and finally saw a little bit of beauty in myself. I still feel I'm along ways away form finding love (side note when I was younger I was very photogenic and really cute. But when I hit my chubby teen years nobody told me that anymore. And it hurt. So please if someone looks nice tell them.)

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