Directed at PTF: I understand that this post is about how you "feel"...well alrighty then.
I am going to break down why this post is way out of line. Your "feelings" and behavior have been nothing but inappropriate over-entitled bullshit for the last 3 1/2 weeks.
This post is just icing on that crazy-ass pity-party cake.
I told you this post pissed me the hell off, I was not joking. The smartest thing you could have done would have been to apologize profusely and then delete the damn thing. Instead you claimed that you were being "attacked".
Okay goes like this.....I don't know you, I AM NOT an old family friend. I offered you help via /r/assistance without ever having met you. Am guessing saying you had some tie to me that might have possibly obligated me to help you sounds better, but it's a straight up lie. (And, if you'll lie in order to be more pitiable because you feel that a stranger isn't helping you as much as they should be helping you, what else will you lie about?)
Re: Me not giving you enough help? okay...were it to matter I am a single mom who makes $12hr, my ability to provide you with everything you want is pretty limited. As for that "spoiled child" that I am so selfishly "taking care of" instead of giving you what it is that you want?, seriously WTF is that all about?
Bus ticket: was either $137 or $144, I can't remember.
Walmart cash: $24.50 (cost to me)
Dominos gift card: $20 (because you spent the $20 in cash I sent you and then demanded money for food.)
So that is what it cost me out of pocket to get you to Oregon.
I have so far paid my space rent (you have a free roof over your head) and electric bill (you have free heat, hot water and access to the fridge, stove, microwave, washer/dryer and unlimited ability to charge that fucking phone while you lay on my couch 24/7 and whine about how mean I am.)
As for money you've cost me since you've been here. Food, personal supplies, clothes, extra toilet paper, dish soap, paper plates, garbage bags, etc, etc.....add another $70 in out of pocket expenses.
So, for you to bitch about me using my Amazon gift card to help someone else out instead of giving you more stuff was nothing but a slap in the face.
My best guess its that you really do feel that me and my child should lower our quality of life and "go without" in order to provide you with more. You've taken over my kids bathroom to a point that I've told him to use my shower.
You've taken over the kitchen. You use metal utensils on my teflon and keep buying more food with the EBT card that I helped you get (and which you are out of compliance on) and just seem to expect me and my kid to work around your excessive need for space. It's my fridge/freezer. (I work 40+ hours a week, you don't work at all. I need to be able to buy enough food to last a week, you don't. I can no longer buy enough food to last a week because I no longer have anywhere to put a week's worth of food.)
I can no longer buy milk or juice because it's pointless, you'll just take it without my permission.
BTW, "please may I have and/or use?" is the appropriate etiquette for house-guests. Just helping yourself to whatever you want without asking permission is really mind-numbingly rude.
You are a guest in my home, you bring zero value to my home and you have no rights in my home. You can't even be bothered to clean up after yourself unless I throw a shit-fit, but you act like you are a paying tenant who deserves maid-service.
Please keep in mind that you are a drain on my physical space, emotional well-being and financial solvency. So, for you to whine about how I'm not "doing enough" for you...is, uh WOW.
Last but not least, obligating me to silence. I actually didn't comment about your family to anyone, it didn't occur to me to think that you'd take help from a stranger if your family/friends had been able to help you.
Anyway, demanding that I respect your space and remain silent about how you've treated me and my kid...#1 most employed tactic of abusive personality types. You're in my house as a result of reddit, therefore it is already public information.