Player brought someone else without asking

Then for the love of God please explain WHY the guy is still her SO.

Here's the thing: I worked hard for a house and a way of life. I have an SO of my own and for the past decade they've built up our house with me. We have pets, we have cars, we have a garden, etc. We are in a good spot in life because we have made choices that have put us there for years.

One of those choices is deciding who we allow into our lives. Why should my entire way of life unknowingly fall into the middle of someone else's (who we don't even know) dangerous personal drama because someone decides it's not important to tell me that they are currently hiding from a crazy SO? This stalker now knows my address, which means he knows my SO's address, my kid's address, my valuables' address, etc. I don't want someone unhinged enough to be GPS tracking his partner to have that. I did not consent to allow him to come or to get involved myself in the shit that is that situation.

There is no valid reason for the Mary person in this situation to involve OP and his home in the middle of her bullshit "relationship." The second your relationship turns to you having the need to hide from your SO it should be over. If you want to continue it with an idiotic choice and play with fire until you get burned then do that. But don't make that choice for me and drag me and mine into the middle of your idiocy.

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