So you mean to tell me, that because you read it on reddit. That your view is skewed because of other people's relationship problems. The whole point of why they usually post is to ask for advice on how to cope and move past that heartache. you'll never live if you don't actually try. There is something wrong with not trying but being so hypocritical of women or others. That's a terrible look on life. Maybe my relationship will end in tears. Maybe it's the best thing to ever happen to me.
You're outlook on nice guys finish last is that of a immature high school melodramatic teenager. Don't forget, it's not just women who cheat. So saying that these stories of women who cheat means they're all cheaters. What does that say about men? We're just as guilty then, has nothing to do with gender.
Yes I went through an anger period. I was upset with myself mostly. Because even though I knew what she had done. I did nothing. I was more worried about being alone then not being with her. But you know what I did, I went out, I made friends, went out and had a good time. Focused on myself. Got myself into better shape, started going out and getting back into the dating game. I learned from my past and I used those lessons so I know what to look for in someone.
I know what I won't tolerate. I moved beyond that relationship, it's not easier and yea I still have issues from thst past relationship, but it's not going to stop me from moving on with life. My present SO is very understanding, she has suffered the same sort of ordeal as I have. We work on it together, you can ask for something as good as having someone who understands you, laughs at the same things as you, someone you can share your interests, your emotions and feelings with. When you find that, maybe you'll understand.
Yea jaded is part of life. But usually when you're jaded, it's because you have experienced something and it has turned you that way. For you to not have experience something like that, you can't tell me you're jaded. You're third party forcibly telling yourself that this is how relationships are and you're to the point where some of the stuff you have posted, is disturbing. I don't know how old you are, but living a life that way just isn't healthy. I don't know if you have underlying issues that make you feel that angst towards things.
But maybe you should find someone to talk to and open up to. If there's one thing you do someday in your life. Just let out what ever it is that you feel you couldn't share with someone. I went through depression. Not just after my relationship but also during. There were times where I broke down. Figured I couldn't go on. I never talked to anyone about it. I grew figuring, men just don't talk about those things. Well, mental health is just as big of a problem as physical health. Keeping that in, not opening up to someone, anyone that is willing to listen can hurt you or worse, inflict harm on others. For your sake, I hope you find something that changes your view on that and your violent outlook on things.
Yes this didn't have anything to do with the thread, but I saw your comment and was disturbed by the things you had said. And i have seen that isn't the first time you posted something violent, and disturbing.