He needs to be more understanding. A lot more. Did he go to your follow up appointments with you? Have you reached out to your physician for clarity and guidance. Every woman is different and heals differently. My wife had laparoscopic surgery and the OBGYN (male) told her she could return to work after a week. The nurse waited for him to leave and then told her it would in fact be several weeks. She was ultimately back after four. When my wife had her hysterectomy we did not have intercourse for 6 months. Again everyone heals different and she heals on the slower side. Did it suck, absolutely but not more than the pain she was in. So I was patient and we waited. She also entertained me in other ways to help. I suggest more communication and tell him how your feeling. Physically and mentally. Ask for patience with your healing.