Right. No one understands the pain and suffering of autistic people living in a neurotypical world and with ableist people. Or more accurately no one wants to understand them. All I also get from people is shit really. Like do you even know what you are talking about and how everything is so much different for us because we are so much different from most of the rest of the population. What works for you don't really and can't work for us. It's like saying to a person with deformed leg that you can walk normally and without any problems if you really try. It does not work like that. Maybe a bad analogy but it hits the point across I guess.
It sucks very much but yeah we only have ourselves. No wants to know how to treat autistic people and how to be fair with them.