Should I message her again to see if she want to get drinks since it is Saturday or would that be too pushy?

'and means I don't get a say'?!? It's a suggestion. WTF

Guy: hey, how bout johnny at 7pm on Sat

Girl: Actually, I've been there before and don't like their food and it's far from my apt. how bout Timmy's?

Guy: Ok, see ya then

I'm convinced no one under 30 on Tinder has interacted with humans in their lifetime. And I'm not trying to be a dick, but if you honestly do not have enough confidence to suggest where you want to eat to a guy when he suggests a place that is a major problem. Truly, not trying to be mean here, but your statement of "that adds pressure to say yes" can really get you into trouble if you end up with a guy and he wants to take things to another level and ours not ready. Guys are NOT mind readers! I and most of my friends rely SOLELY on what a woman says. We have almost NO nonverbal communication skills so while you think you may be saying no nonverbally if you say yes even if you don't want to that is a major problem. Truly, not trying to be mean here but sincerely care. You will need to get better at voicing what you want and honestly using tinder to voice what you want to strangers is good practice. You don't know them so push yourself out of your comfort zone to voice what you want and where you want to go if you don't like something but don't ever feel pressured to agree if you're very much against it. Seriously, guys don't read minds and please don't expect us to. Peace!

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