Oh yeah I didn't say you did, but I just didn't want to come off as shaming people. It's highly regional apparently, but I still don't think >10 is a reasonable number. If I admitted to having 10-15ish partners, or even hinted at the fact of not remembering every one of them, my entire extended would keel over and die, probably the same with my SO's family and they're not even religious. There's way too much stigma in my opinion for the average person to have that many partners, and like I said before, most women are exclusively attracted to men so 10+ doesn't work and it'll eventually equalize for the most part.