If I out more fingers in, more response. If I work up to or toward a whole hand, more response. If I use a toy that's larger, or wear a c-ring for a bit more, or nail that angle of my pelvis where I get that extra .4" the response is totally different.

I can't see the truth as anything but that if I was bigger women would enjoy it more. Noone can tell me an extra half inch, at low 4s visible, low 5s medically measured, doesn't feel better and that every other guy she's been with didn't feel better in PIV for this reason.

At best I can't see myself as anything other than tolerable in exchange for my looks, character, and the confidence that is suddenly evaporating in recent months.