Literally where did I ask to be reprimanded for my use of the word moderate and those views? I do believe that the avoidance of excessively opposite views is necessary. The things you stated I agree with, that is why I am, ya know, a radical feminist, and they are extreme. Radical is a synonym of extreme. Extreme does not mean bad. The enacting of these views I don't always agree with.
Most of the stuff I read here I find somewhat over the top bordering on offensive to me, a female human. I also frequently look through trans orientated subs and am offended by what I read there. Neither side is right, neither side is going to get anywhere, and there are assholes everywhere.
You don't have to agree with me at all, but my views are mine, I am a radical feminist at the core.