It's interesting to me why you are so adamantly defending this. I'm guessing you're Mormon. Actual experience here... LOL. Are you serious? Trust me I know more about this fucked-up cult than I ever wanted to know, as my wife is my best friend and confides everything to me. Maybe we should also talk about the time she was molested by a member of the church and the bishop told her to keep quiet because it would reflect badly, and then helped her to ask forgiveness for "her part" in it? Would you like to go into some detail and discuss that as well? Have a lot of anger regarding Mormons and your fucked-up cult due to the shity things that your religion has done to my wife, so I'm not trying to be an asshole, but it brings the asshole out in me.