am i missing something in the video?

dude has a suitcase that seems to be a fraction of an inch too large to pass the size requirements, based largely on it's wheels, so he tries to avoid having it rejected.

....

that's it, right?

how is it unreasonable to be selfish in this scenario, as it literally it entirely about him?

whether that bag goes on or is refused, nobody is effected in any negative or positive way... except him. he would likely be fcked in some way or another if it's rejected.

he made a very poor choice in trying to divert the problem, but what about this makes him narcissistic or a bad person, in anyway?

y'all ran quite a distance in a completely unfounded direction.