What did your crush do that completely ruined your infatuation for them?

I found out that he has some really toxic personality traits, like sorting women into categories and leading them on. His work ethic also sucks ass, and he’s an idiot to top it all off.

He’s been flirty with everyone but in particular seems to favour one of the girls in my department. Acts like he’s gonna ask her out, hangs out with her every chance he gets, messages her all the time… only for us to find out he is obsessed with a different girl he has never formally met, hunted her down on instagram to figure out what she likes, and is planning to do the same university courses as her, claiming she is “the dream” and “marriage material”.

My coworker is gonna be shattered… I am awaiting all this drama to unfold

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